Her BIG DAY ~~~

Today is the day she meets the world.

Since young, she's been trained to work to earn money.

From what i know, during when she's still in her teenage years, there's quite a number of guys that are after her.

Yes she's pretty as well as hardworking.

She used to be fat. Everyone called her fat, till 1 day she was being frightened by some perverts. From then on, she got more and more thinner and even prettier.

When she started working, she got more and more guys after her. There's no one she wants but a particular guy.

They got married, they've been through thick and thin, ups and downs, sadness and happiness.

Today is your special day, and here I wish you stay healthy always, be happy and dont worry too much.

Your 3 precious and lovely kids whom are now grown up, whom are able to earn money now, whom are gonna start their own family soon... Will always... Always love you. You know you are the best and you're their world's greatest mom.

Happy Birthday Mom!!!

P/S: There's a small surprise waiting for you back home.. :D

Mama's Birthday Gift...

Finally bought the Levi's Skinny Jeans for my mama... So... it's time to go collect money from my sis and my bro.. MUAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH~~!!!!!

Below are the pics of PROOF that the jeans is really bought!!!

My mama's waist is oni 28... and the price is RM203!!!

The "butt" look of the jeans...

The front look..
After mama wore it... this is the side look... My mama thinner than me... T_T

The front look after mama wore it... looks more nicer when you see her wear it in person...

So... before we buy the jeans... our conversation is as follows: -

Me: So mom, you go choose see you want simi color lah...
Mom: How much first?? Expensive 1 leh..
Me: You just choose 1st.. dun look at the price...
Mom: Hmmm... I want lighter color 1...
Me: OK go there choose.. got a lot... *point to a stack of skinny jeans*
Mom: *Took 1 piece she likes* Hmmm... *She look for the price tag* Wah!! So expensive... dun 1 lah...
Me: Aiyah.. this 1 izzit?? Go try 1st!!!
Mom: Expensive wor...
Me: -____- Go tryyyyyy... You wat size??
Mom: hmmm... try 26 and 27...
Me: OK.. *informed the sales girl*

***** After 5 minutes *****

Mom: *Open fitting room door*
Me: So how??
Mom: 26 cannot lah... 27 a bit tight...
Me: *Look from hip to toe* Ei.. Looks like veli the tight leh...
Mom: Hmmm... a bit oni... Or maybe try size 28 hor?
Me: OK... *Inform the sales girl*

***** After another 5 min *****

Mom: *Open door* So... nice ar??
Me: Yeah.. fit fit... looks better... you like bor?
Mom: Like ar... but seriously, nice or not??
Me: Nice lok... You really like rite??
Mom: Like... but a bit too long... here can cut 1 ar??
Me: Can gua...
Salesman: Yes can cut but need half hour.
Me: OK Thanks... please measure for her and then cut...
Salesman: OK.. *measuring* Cut 2 inches OK?
Me: Ma.. OK bor?? Or you want shorter??
Mom: OK can.. dun 1 too short..

Then I went off to pay... Got extra charge of RM10 if I want to "join" it nicely after cut... Their meaning of "join" if to sew the end of the jeans with more nicer string... like how it should look on ur jeans lah.. dunno how to explain lah... I just know that for that "more nicer string" they charge 9 me RM10... kanasai... But ok lah.. since it's for mom...

During payment where the girl is on the way to SWIPE my credit card... My mom ask..

Mom: Ei mei.. really nice 1 or not?? dun lie ar...
Me: =.="" Nice lok... abuthen I say buy for what? Paying now lehhhh...
Mom: Hehehehe.. OKOK...
Me: *Roll eyes*

So we walked off without the jeans as they need 30minutes to cut and "join" it... so we walk around Pyramid...

During the walk, me and mom was chit chatting and I almost wanna jump from 4th floor of Pyramid New Wing last night... Wanna know why?? Go read the thing my mom told me..

Mom: Ei the jeans veli expensive hor??
Me: Aiyah nvm lar... u like can adi lar...
Mom: But expensive lar...
Me: Nvm lar... summore I got share with sis and maybe boy geh.. if he want...
Mom: Or maybe ask boy this weekend no need treat me dinner lar... ask him share with u...
Me: See what he said lo... I chin chai 1 lar...
Mom: Hmmm... Actually, we shouldnt have bought the jeans...
Me: o.O HAR?!?! Why?!?!
Mom: Well cuz I saw got 1 shoe very nice... RM150++ jek... cheaper than the jeans...
Me: O.O HAR?!?!?! SIMI SHOE NEED RM150++?!?!?!
Mom: Hahahahahaha.. Errr... Clarks loh...
Me: Orhhhh... But why buy shoes?? U got a lot adi wat...
Mom: No I got 1 work shoe a bit spoilt ledi... So I saw that Clarks 1.. very comfy leh.. but RM150++... So I didnt buy...
Me: =.="""""" Last time I asked you what you want, you said jeans... Now after buy jeans, you said u wan Clarks.. aihhhh...
Mom: hehehehehe... nvm lar... got jeans can lar...

So you see... I wonder izzit some woman like that 1 har?? Today said want jeans, then tomolo said wan shoes... aihhhh....

But anyhow... I know she's happy that she got the jeans... So... she happy, all of us happy.......

But errr... sis might cry lar... cuz she always tell me "I pokai lar... boh lui.."
HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAH!!!!! :D

HaPPY BeLaTEd BirTHDaY MoM!!!!!!!

Very very very outdated posts...

I was suppose to post this for my mama's birthday but now only I post it.. pai seh...

So... Mama's birthday past adi.. So below are the pics that we took when we went to Sunway Pyramid's Dragon-i for dinner as her birthday celebration...

At first I was suppose to treat her dinner but my dad insists that he's gonna treat... so let him bah...

So my backup plan was to buy a Levi's Skinny Jeans for her since she wanted it so much.. but of course share among my sis and bro lah!! muahahahahahah!!!

My mama.. Looks a lot thinner compared to last year's birthday...

SiChuan Prawns
Dunno what Long Beans
Dunno what chicken... forgot jor lar...
Claypot Taufu Seafood... something like that lar...
My mom and dad's dessert...

So... anyway...

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY MOM~~~!!!!!

Back from Penang...

OK it's been almost a week I didnt update my blog... Reason is because, as stated in my title of this post, that I just got back from Penang.

Nope this time I went there PURELY is for work and not for fun... How I wish I could go there with my boyboy like what we used to do for fun... aihhhh... I really really miss him...

OK anyhow... At 1st, when I got the news that I'll have to go Penang with my boss for a week (Monday to Friday), I really really is dreading the time. Reason is because I don't like travelling with bosses... and seriously speaking, earlier when I went there with my boss for 3 days only, I felt like dying..

I even voiced it out to a few of my colleagues and also to Kalei and Huei... Then I got a very useful quote from Kalei,

"If you dont like her, she also dont like you. To let someone respect you, you will have to respect that someone first. To have someone smile to you, you will have to smile first."

Ahhhhh... After I heard that quote, it really kinda open up my mind and what he said is true too. If I dont like my boss, it'll definitely be shown on my face and my boss will sure knew it. Then my boss will also dont like me. So I learned to accept my boss as a friend instead of someone I dont like and etc.

So truthfully, during the week with her in Penang, it was actually quite nice. We got to chat quite a few of topics that is not related to work and we even went shopping together 1 day when we got the time!! It's fun!!!

While shopping, my boss was trying out some clothes and me, who're poor and got nothing to do except windows shopping.... I cam-whored!!!!!! :D

I like this jeans!!! It makes me looks slim!!! :D :D :D

It really do makes me looks damn slim rite?? hhehehehe..

OK ignore my face cuz its ugly but look at my legs!!!

It looks slimmer and longer hor?? kakakakakakaka...

So that's the only time I got to cam-whore as the rest of the time, either I was too lazy to take any pics or there's nothing special for me to take. So what I did is just work work work and work...

So when I was halfway home (from the PLUS highway to be exact), I sms-ed my sis and told her that I'm on my way home and explained to her where to fetch me once I reached KL. She said she's helping mom with the cooking and asked if I would like to have dinner?

As I just ate some breads during 1 of our stops, I said no as I'm full already but she said mom said I were to drink the chicken soup and eat the fishball. So I agreed as I think it's not that filling and I missed home-cooked food!!!

So after I got home and settle down, this is what I ate from the left-over that they ask me to eat...

Mama's "lah sau" chicken soup and sis's handmade fishball with mushrooms and etc

OK I know the fishball don't really look like a fishball at all. Sis said she have sliced carrot, sliced mushroom and dunno wat is in it. You want the recipe, ask from my sis pls.

When I took the first sip of the soup, although its cold... really really cold, I felt warm inside. It's mama's chicken soup... It's tasty and you can feel the "sam kei" she put on cooking the soup. Ahhhh... nothing can beat mama's soup. :D

Then when I took the first bite of the fishball, it's again cold but it's yummy!!! It's handmade by my sis wor... purposely help mama cook dinner for us worrr... also got her "sam kei" in it geh... So I really really like the food... Although it's cold, but it makes you warm inside.. :D

Patience...

She's working in Mid Valley office building where her job is only required her to work from 8.30am till 6pm. She will wake up at 6.30am to prepare breakfast for her husband and to hang the wet clothes to dry. After that, she will prepare herself to go to work where she will fetch her husband and son to KL to work, before going back to her office. When she reach home, she'll change her clothes and immediately cook dinner for her family.

There are times where she's very tired, do not feels like cooking for her family, but when she thinks that they'll have to eat outside with those not so healthy food, she'll force herself to cook no matter how tired. When the food are ready, instead of getting praised, she'll get complains from her husband and kids saying her cookings are not tasty nor delicious. She's patient, so she would not say a single word towards their complain.

There are times when the kids are being disrespectful and always complains bout her. Though there are times she's at the wrong, but mostly, she just care for her kids that she nags and scolds so much. There's one daughter that got a bf that she did not approved of. Reason?? She feels that the bf are only using her and only taking advantage of her. Why did she thinks so?? That's because what she sees is that there are times when the daughter are willingly to buy clothes for her bf, buy food for her bf, wash and iron the clothes for her bf and clean the bf's house rather than helping her own mom to do all those things.

There she thinks, "If that guy is such a good guy, he won't let the gf to do so many things. Even there are times I can see that my daughter use more money towards him and his family rather than that guy spent more towards my daughter!" Anyone who heard this would think that she's being biased and didnt look more towards the depths of things and judge things unwisely. But being a mom, she of course only want what's best for her daughter. She wants her daughter to have a loving husband that really cares for her and wouldn't wants her to do too many chores that make her daughter suffer.

There are times where she will not talk back towards the daughter when the daughter scold her for being biased, for being so unfair, for being such a complain freak and for being an unreasonable mom. Instead, she took it all in and keep it deep inside her heart. There are times when she asked both her daughters to help her buy stuff when they're so convinient of buying, but both the daughters will mostly reject and said she's so "mah fan".

But when the daughters ask her to help them buy some certain watches that she could get it for best price, she will do it so willingly without any complains. She will call that dealer and asked for the lowest possible price, will sometimes needs to get scold by the dealer when she asked too many details, and are willing to go to that shop which are so unconvenient for her to get it for her daughters. And when she pass it to her daughters, most of the time they didnt even say thank you, but just took the watch and walked away.

She told the daughters before that she likes to eat "guai ling kou". Sometimes they daughters will buy it for her, but most of the time, she'll buy it herself which is quite rare, because it's not cheap. Her salary is much lower than the daughters but she are able to support them by providing food for them, paying all the bills in the house and sometimes, bought something nice for her kids. The kids didnt really appreciate it, and even told her that the stuff she bought got "no taste". She will only smile and said "Lan si wor!".

Though there are times she's not so great, where she will scold her kids unreasonably, that's because she didn't want the kids to become so lazy and wanted her kids to prevent for making mistakes that she knew will happen.

She above........ is my beloved mom, that me as one of her daughter, didnt really listen to her and instead, being quite a rebellious daughter. After reading what I just typed above, I feel that my mom really care for us, really wants what's best for us, and pray to God everyday that we'll lead a good life. We're sorry mom for being so bad and disrespectful at times but we really love you!

*Author's notes*
What makes me typed all this?? Well I've been wanting to post this for the past few days, it's in my head for the past few days, but i just got no time to post it up. So now that I've posted, I felt relieved. It's just a sudden thing that came to me that my mom really did a lot of things for us but we didnt even appreciate it. Of course after my beloved Uncle Alan's incident, I've learned to appreciate and loved those around me more. I hope whoever that read this, will understand and love ur parents more, as I think what they want is just what's best for us. Let them nag or scold as you wouldn't know what will happen tomorrow.........